Tom Blake has written more than 800 columns on middle age and senior relationships. E-mail him for questions at TPBlake@aol.com

Tom Blake is an author and newspaper columnist in Dana Point, California. He owned Tutor and Spunky's Deli in Dana Point for 26 years and retired January 30, 2015. He is writing a book about his 26 years of owning a deli in Dana Point